- We called ServPro to arrange for a time to get our stuff delivered. Thinking it will probably take a week tops. I mean, our stuff has been sitting there for almost a year & a half, right? Nope. Six weeks. Six weeks!! They need time for processing. What the hell does that even mean?! What have they been doing with our belongings for all of that time in the first place!? Meanwhile, we're getting emails from our oh-so-very-wonderful insurance agent (can you feel the dripping sarcasm?) that we have thirty more days for them to inspect our damaged property or they won't pay us for any of it. But ServPro won't release our stuff to us for 45! Not to mention, ServPro is telling said insurance agent that none of our stuff is damaged. At all. WHAT!? We have photos to prove how gawd-awfully damaged many items were before they even took them! And let's not forget, we want to get moved to Vermont like, yesterday if possible so we can get settled somewhere around the time that school starts. How in the hell are we supposed to do that without our belongings? GAHHH!!
- Oh wait. There's more! We finally got that inspection today. Structural rough-in inspection so that we can proceed with putting up the insulation & drywall and, you know, live there someday. Does it pass? Of course not! Is it because it's incorrect or unsafe? Nope. It's because they used the wrong piece of wood here, & metal instead of wood there, or the plans don't match exactly what you did here, blah blah blah. Are you kidding me? This bureaucratic bull**** is just beyond me. So our choices are to rip a whole bunch of stuff out & redo it exactly as the plans dictate (so not happening), or get ahold of the damn architecht again and have him inspect what's done to ensure that it's sound, write up a new report that will again take two months for him to actually complete plus a measly thousand or two dollars that we do. not. have. Either way, we can do nothing more to this god-forsaken house until that is all settled.
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
NOW WHAT!?!?!
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Kansas House
Saturday, July 23, 2011
It's All About Perspective
And I listen to my friends complain about how their life is turned upside down because of how dreadful (insert trivial problem here) is, or how the world has ended because of blah blah blah & I just want to scream You people have no friggin' clue!!! But then I take a step back & remember that not too long ago I would be devastated at such trivial things because that's all I knew. And I go to work & I'm constantly reminded that my problems are nothing compared to these sick kids, and I can't tell you guys how grateful I am that God is constantly reminding me of that. I'm constantly remembering that we are so incredibly blessed and that even though our life is a great big challenge right now, we are all healthy & fine & we'll get through it all with flying colors. That's all that matters. So I'm taking a deep breath & putting one foot in front of the other & moving forward. We. Can. Do this.
So: updates. FINALLY got a part in that we were missing, so things will finally start to pick up the pace with our house in KS starting tomorrow. I'll post some progress pictures soon. Hopefully that will get completed soon so that we can get inspections done, then start putting walls back up & get home. Or, ya know, run far far away & start a whole different project in another state! lol (God, we're insane! He he!)
Had my phone interview on Thursday & it went incredibly well. I guess I look really good on paper, so that helps! lol We're going on vacation here soon & plan to be back in VT the second week of August, so we're trying to coordinate a formal interview then. Fingers crossed! While we're there, we'll officially close on the house too, so I'll post some pictures of that too once it's all officially ours. (Fair warning though, it needs A LOT of love! lol)
So that's all I've got for now. Hope you all have a lovely weekend!
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Vermont = Heaven, Kansas = Hell!
But WE. HAVE. LOST IT!
We're now beginning week 6 of living in a one-room hotel and after a day of screaming & crying (mostly myself...) we had to have a "Come to Jesus Talk" with the kids as Mathew says (I still don't understand what that means! lol). We sat down with them and talked about how we all have to work on how we interact with each other right now. That even though we're one of the strongest families I know, we've all let the stress get to us & have forgotten how to show each other respect. The kids have forgetten how to listen, they've started to fight like cats & dogs, Mathew & I have jumped to yelling & frustration waaaay faster than we ever have before, and basically we're just not handling all of this very well anymore. So we hugged & we cried & we doled out the love, & all breathed a sigh of relief. And the boys even decided to sign "contracts" detailing their own expectations of themselves (I'll listen to Mom & Dad the first time, I'll be respectful & kind to my brother, things like that. Super cute by the way). So everything should be better for a little while now right? WRONG! Within 20 minutes my son completely lost his mind because we asked him to put his pajamas on & not sleep in his swimming trunks. This is what he looked like:
Well... so much for that. Looks like we're all going to just be in hell until we get to finally escape.
Kansas has pretty much been craptastic for us. It always seems like things just fall apart for us here. And right now, with all of this god-awful heat, absolutely nothing is moving forward with our house here & that's really adding to our frustration. But right now, everything seems to just flow really well as we make moves toward Vermont. It seems like God really is pushing us in that direction; like that's where we belong. We're headed back there in a couple of weeks for part of our vacation & to close on the house & we've been making some calls on figuring out the details on how Vermont works. First of all, they want to put the purchase of our house in the paper because apparently the town will be really interested to see that someone is finally going to rescue that (potentially) beautiful house on the corner. How funny! I guess they always publish home sales, but when we asked to not make ours public she discouraged it since we would be the town heroes! lmao! ;) We also have been making calls about how to transfer our businesses, tag our cars, and handle all of the other state stuff, & everything there is so much easier than it is here & everyone is so willing to help you. It's just really refreshing. So for right now, it seems to us that any interaction we have regarding Kansas has been pure hell. But Vermont has been so great! I think someone's trying to tell us something, don't you? ;)
And on that note, I do have a phone interview with Dartmouth Hospital tomorrow afternoon. I'm really nervous! Wish me luck! :)
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Things are becoming Real
Thursday, July 14, 2011
You Must Be In on the Secret ;)
If you're viewing this post now, you are one of the precious few who are in on our humongous, ginormous, life-changing secret (and you know how hard it is for me to keep secrets!) We are picking up and starting a whole new life nearly 1500 miles away in a small village in Vermont!!! Yikes! :S It's scary & exciting and overwhelming and wonderful all at once. The truth is, we have just been through entirely too much for one little family to handle, and while we want to be stubborn & stick it out till the bitter end, we also have to decide what our breaking point is; at what point do we say enough is enough. We're putting our feet down & taking control & putting what's best for our family FIRST. Yes, we most certainly will finish that rediculous house in Kansas. We're just not going to let it cause us suffering anymore. (You try living in one hotel room with your three kids for a while & tell me how great it is! lol) How & when we're going to do it from the other side of the country? Hell, I don't know! lol But we will because we're not quitters (and letting it go is just plain dumb).
In the mean time though, we're going to focus on doing something productive that will be good for our family. What does that mean to my insane husband? "Hey, let's buy a run-down 150 year-old house in Vermont & rehab THAT!" Awesome. Just what we need! lol Truthfully though, Mathew has wanted to live in Vermont for the last 10+ years. He just feels at home there for some strange reason. I joke with him that he must have lived there in a previous life. ;) And he's wanted this particular house for the last 8+ years. Why? Couldn't tell ya. But even I've got to admit that it does have a certain charm to it, and I can see that it can become a beautiful home if given a TON of love. So it kind of fell into our laps at a time when we most needed something to work in our favor, & we decided to pay attention to God's gentle push forward & go for it!
What this blog is going to turn out to be, I'm not quite sure yet. It may be a blog about our progress on the VT house and/or the KS house, it may be a blog about our day to day lives in a whole new world to us, or it may just be me venting about what a saint my husband has for a wife for going along with this whole crazy scheme! lol Whichever direction it takes, I hope you'll join me for the ride!